Saturday, August 23, 2003

Am i entitled to be upset??

I am not too sure if being a friend means that i cannot get upset at her/him or that i always have to stand on their side regardless of the situation.

She came back for her summer break not too long ago and all she could talk about was the other guy who she went to school with. Not her boyfriend who i think is an absolute gem and catch, but this guy she knows from school. She was two timing her bf for this guy and i really don't like what she is doing. It upsets me and at times i feel like shaking her and say "Wake up,girl!". I mean she is flying off on a three weeks holiday to London-Holland-Spain and missing first week of school. Plus, she wants to break up with her boyfriend when she is on the trip over the phone. Honestly, she should set her priorities right and i am one who frowns upon breaking up with someone and taking the easy way out to break up with them on the phone, the email or worse sms. It just is not right or fair regardless of why the breakup was initiated.

Luckily for her, she didn't ask me to tell the guy about the breakup or i would have just lashed out at her. I haven't said it out right that i am not happie with what she is doing but i have been rather harsh when she ask for my opinions.

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